Once you know your lover’s blueprint you will know how to better please them and honor them in the way they desire." ![]() "It’s so important to know your blueprint so that you can communicate and ask for what you desire. Which do you prefer most? Which do you not like? Bonus points for adding sensation items to play with like feathers, paddles, yoni wands, and whatever else is calling you. Try light hovering touch, massaging and grounding touch, spanking, scratching, hair pulling, and then combine 2 or more touches at the same time. To explore more and figure out what your blueprint type is you’ll want to become an erotic detective and play around with as many different types of touch as you can think of. May feel misunderstood or unsatisfiable and like they are too much. Always shapeshifting to meet others needs, will leave them unfulfilled and unable to develop their own sexuality. Shapeshifter Super powers: Turned on by everything above, they are sexually sophisticated and desire variety. ![]() ![]() May hide their desires and have deep shame. Shadows: A specific fetish can become their only turn on. Kinky Super powers: Turned on by power dynamics, anything that feels taboo to them, and pushing the edges. Genitals become the focus and they have a limited definition of what sex is. Shadows: Can get too focused on the end goal and miss the journey. Sexual Super powers: Turned on by straightforward sex, nudity, orgasms, penetration and direct genital contact. They may worry a lot and project things that are not true. Orgasm may seem elusive – almost there then gone. Shadows: Hard time getting out of their heads. Orgasm may even come from a taste or any of the 5 senses being ignited. Sensual Super powers: Turned on by all of their senses being engaged, ambiance, romance, and sensory play. Shadows: Hyper-sensitivity may cause them to short circuit and turn off quickly. Can experience orgasm without even being touched. Shadows can be healed and transformed, in fact they just want to be seen and acknowledged so that they can become pathways to pleasure.Įnergetic Super powers: Turned on by anticipation, space and tease prefers light or hovering touch. They are shutting you off, shutting you down, and creating shame. In sexuality, shadows are blocking you from experiencing orgasms, sharing your fantasies, experiencing pleasure, experiencing sensation, and being vulnerable with your partner. A shadow is a part of yourself that is blocking you from experiencing certain aspects of your life. Even if you are not experiencing all of the super power qualities currently, there’s potential for you to expand into these. The superpowers are all the ways that you can receive pleasure. Each type including Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky and Shapeshifter have a super power side and a shadow side. Your Erotic Blueprint™ is the way you are uniquely wired to receive pleasure. Understanding your Erotic BlueprintKnowing your sex language aka your Erotic Blueprint™ type is key to unlocking more pleasure and deeper connection in your love life. At the heart of all this.? Understanding how I was wired, erotically. I learned it was OK to express my desires, to crave sex and connection and have a rich, rewarding relationship - according to my terms. I wound up in New York taking a class with Mama Gena (author of the book I’d read) and I found my voice again. There were a few hurdles - like the fact that I was living in London with a partner I wanted to leave and my visa to stay got rejected. One of the chapters is called Monogamy: Time for a new model? After reading the book, I realised I actually could create a relationship on my own terms and write my own script when it came to living the life I wanted to lead. ![]() Around this time, I read a book that had been sitting on my shelf for a couple of years called Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts by Regena Thomashauer. Several years ago I was in a sexless marriage and I didn’t know what my desires were let alone how to communicate them.I was trying to decide to either get the spark back into my relationship or get a divorce.
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